The title of this blog comes from a film called the nutty professor, I know this weird but it has meaning. It’s also the original not the Eddie Murphy. It’s a comedy that was recently done by Eddie Murphy but had a true underlying messages.
We live as someone
Our individual someone is made from what feel we want to project. At times some catalyst that interrupts our message becomes a filter. The most common can be alcohol.
It arrives as a warm blanket on a cold evening. No interpretation, no comprehensive measures can lend reason to its influence.
When first encountered it’s the simplest of choices. So after its audience becomes adored and measure of constraint lost.
It seems simple.
It’s allure is passionate.
Its Impact Is Profound.
The most logical facet comes from the observer to its active participants.
Most times the active “drunk” has no motive but a goal. Get to the point of feelin good.
The observer maintains the perception of what is going on and how can this be appropriate.
This is the great divide between the characters.
No one drunk, is concerned on perception the next the enjoyment of the event.
No observer can have the enjoyment of the event, but instead appreciates the consequences.
Yes the husband or wife you love may be drunk but the questioning and stigmatized behavior can lead to heated debate.
Facts are that most high level roles require social interaction and that most events involve liquor.
Yes we can pretend but facts are for facts.
Its seems for the mkst part more an executive is managing a staff the more they manage liquor.
Are all drinking? No.
But what happens when they drinks.
Here is an example of the turn of even
The individual arrives.
They seem inebriated this can be a real drunk to the “I hate they drink so any drink is deunk” concept.
They arrive usually tired
They are seemly arriving from travel or long days of work.
They have just departed a team that has worked 10-12 hours a day.
The first question is “are you drunk”
The first answer is no, but have been drinking. This occurs for the first year.
The response is a series of acquisitions that normally may seems right.
Here are some reasons for when they are wrong
The Traveler …
If an affair was to be had it happened before the departure. What Is The Point of this acquisition on a plane or events on the plane
If they did not love you the cost of divorce is minimal for most travelers can easily recoup this loss.
They are not lonely for most travelers are over whelmed with communications.
They can cheat and hide it. Its Not Hard When 50+ Percent Is on the road.
So why do they fight
Most not drinking are testing the response of the “drinking partner” to see if there are gaps. Of course there are gaps they are drunk or at least not worried about an inquisition??
The non – traveling partner thinks it’s a party without them. No its not we are just really tired.
The non traveling partner feels like they have no control. WRONG…. they are in complete control for your partner loves and wants to be with you.
So what happens when you feel they are not in control. Don’t fight them or force a justification. They are just happy to be home and most reactions are because they can’t believe they have to endure the attacks for just beginning happy to be back.
Remember they really love you and it’s hard to be away. Relaxing may seem as partying but it’s not.
Also of you are afraid they will leave they are already gone you just don’t know it.
Love yourself and then the rest for without the core you will implode.