Throughout history loving a same sex partner has exsisted. In some cases it been due to isolation as occurs in prisons. The facts are humans need contact and isolation has led many to feel attracted to others that have shared similar likes, opinions anything that lessens isolation. The sex drive that lays testament to humanity’s ability to endure is strong. We are divinely endowed with a sex drive that will easily cast aside common sense. Even when isolation is not enforced as with the agricultural societies of past. How many tales of beastiality colored our past ancestors.
The fact is humans are made and designed to procreate. The religious attacks on sex are nothing more than control for the dominance of a tribe. If sex was freely allow then the units were scattered. A family unit was easier to control through prosperity. A father was added to a tribe and his lineage would follow. The mother created but each time took 9 months and usually died so their value was diminished. Instead one father could yeild a brood of hundreds in 9 months by using hundreds of mothers. This was why having many wives was accepted. Capture the father you captured many mothers and the entire future.
So enough said humans have a divine drive to have sex and sex will not be stopped with elimination of opposite human producing partners.
Here then lies our conundrum.
Why are people gay….
Is there a reason?
Must there be a reason?
Ok lets think about what this meant through the ages….
Some races like the greeks had events that were only for men. The original Olympics were a man only event and all contestants and most attending were nude. This must have surely raise the hairs on the backs, if not other things of most Greco-roman wrestling spectaors of their day. But why you ask.? Well woman at the time were seen as easy things own but a man that was different that meant you owned what could not be owned.
I must confess I am not gay, have never been attracted and even when I have thought of why I am not gay in the solace of my heart. I can easily know same sex person is attractive, but what I most strongly crave resides elsewhere.
I have also had many gay friends, some have disappointed me as they have cast me aside for not being gay. Not all gays are good but then neither are heteros. While others I have as some of my closet friends that I truly love and cherish. Others are just same sex people i love and the sex plays no part but I love them.
Ok enough on why I think I feel I am not a Homophobic person. Here is where many of you will hate me.
I feel being gay is not normal and I define normal as within the bounds of nature and science.
At heart I am a scientist and I have developed my own thoery for why we have such a predominant gay influence.
By the way one of my best gay friends once said if I did not know you, I would take this the wrong way.
I really ask you don’t take this anyway but at its merit its science that is where I lie. Also know that being gay is not “bad’. It’s just is being alive, and liking what you like. You only have one life please enjoy it. NO ONE IS GIVING ANY OF US ANOTHER
Let’s start with a simple test. Nature is a bitch as was said in WWZ with Brad Pitt.
In the past many men and women were forced to conceal their gay tendancies as this could mean alienation or worse. So how did they hide.
They hid in plane site….
They married, they had children and they suffered.
Recently we have started a movement to allow the gay to be open. I applaud this.
Don’t get excited, here comes the, I hate you!!!
I believe that we have been promoting a anti nature experiment for thousands of years.
For the first time gay don’t have to hide to have sex
For the first time the gay gene is not spread to hide being gay
For the first time gay have no fear and can live normal lives.
Hey?? wait a minute buddy what are you saying, you ask….?
Yes I feel that by allowing people to be openly gay they will minimize the inclination towards being gay. Will it be eliminated, no…
Place one hundred gay people on an island wait one hundred years and what’s left?
Gay exist in animals but as a by product of isolation not a social concentration. By isolating the gay community we have allowed a not normal gene to permeate our society. .
Please not normal does not mean evil, but instead not scientifically sustainable.
Here is the cold hard fact.
Take all the gay people and separate them into male and female camps. Then transfer those camps to separate islands. Wait one hundred years.
Nature has done its job.
We have created our own Frankenstein. I know this sounds bad but its not. No one alive is bad or good by design they are good or bad by their legacy.
Do you want to be remembered by what or who you are. It never changes just because you are or are nor gay. You are you and thats what you leave. If you seek a label then maybe thats part of why its not normal.
I want all my gay friends to know I love them like everyone else. You are not special for being gay, you have always been special for being you.